But I was surprised by the chapter about relationships– a lot of stuff in there that was pretty hard hitting. I had to hear it, though. I was so wrapped up in myself and didn’t ever think about it in the way they put it: I’d be helping myself in the long run by being more considerate of my husband. Being more open, more willing to be intimate etc. Not what I thought of as a time out but I get how it helps you in the long run!